fight!

being pushed away, being ignored, being unwanted, are the most unhealthy situation and condition that each and every person should avoid. it brings us down, it takes advantage of our lives and it kills our social skills. smart and confident people don't let or doesn't allow these things to happen, they fight through it and they get back up every time it knocks them down.

meanwhile, low self esteemed people with no confidence about themselves, let these things happen. they think they are fighting these situations, but if so, then these situations should already stop. they do not make "it" happen. they give up too easily. when things get worse, they then blame themselves. its true, it is their fault but blaming yourself or themselves will only make it worse. the other team or tribe wins then. what you should do is be brave, stand up straight and pick up that invincable sword and fight! fight as hard as possible, fight for yourself and your pride.

remember :

" if you give up on yourself, no one can help you fight for you. it must and has to be you, yourself. "

okay? goodluck